We've been to look at vases and table runners, tie backs and candles. We managed to get the black pebbles your Mom wanted for the glass vases and have ordered the flowers - Oriental Lillies and white roses for the tables and for your Mom's bouquet and white and pink roses and stargazer lillies for the bridesmaids.
In between all these wedding arrangements, one of Finn's Norwegian cousins passed away. She was only 2 years older than me so it was really quite young. I didn't get to the funeral because I was away in Berg but Finn went.